Every year I make the usual New Year's resolutions- eat better, exercise more, yell less...blah,blah,blah. This year, I'm really taking the time to think about what I want to work on in the coming year. Yes, diet and exercise are on the list, but they're not the entire list. So here goes...
1. Diet and Exercise. (Not like I was keeping you in suspense on this one!) I'd like to be a size 10 again, and that isn't going to happen with my current habits! I need to shift the focus away from convenience foods towards healthier options, and find the time to get in at least 30 minutes of exercise a day. Easier said than done, right?! That's why it's on the list EVERY YEAR!
2. Make short term changes that will have a lasting effect. This one covers a wide variety of things, like the fact our debt is out of control and the bills don't pay themselves. It stresses me out! But instead of sulking and sticking my head in the sand to avoid it, I've decided to get a second job to get us back on track. We got ourselves into this mess, and we will get ourselves out of it!
3. Getting organized and sticking to a schedule. I'm not one of those people who think my house has to be ready for company at all times, nor do I think clutter makes it feel more cozy. I do think that we can all benefit from some consistent organization (not just for a day or 2), and a schedule that includes chores!
4. Spending more time on the floor with my 2 year old. My son is wonderful, and he entertains himself quite well. Unfortunately, I tend to take advantage of this sometimes, and spend far too much time at the computer when I could and should be playing with him! He's only going to be home with me for 2.5 more years, and I do love spending time with him. So I am vowing to get down on his level and play with his toys with him, far more often than I do now.
5. Listen to my kids. I mean really listen. Both of my older boys have tendency to go on and on when telling a story. They get it from their father! I have been guilty of tuning them out, especially if I am at the computer (which is usually on the kitchen table). Then when they're done, I have to ask them to repeat some things because I'm lost! I know that if I want them to continue to talk to me as they get older, they have to know that I will always be there to listen. The stakes only get higher as they get older, and I want to be in the know!
6. Appreciate everything that my husband does. I love my husband. He is a great husband and father. He does well beyond his share of the housework, and works full time. Sometimes I rely on the fact that he does certain chores, so even though I have the time to do them, I don't. It's bad- I know! Telling him that I appreciate him isn't enough though. I need to show him...and show him I shall!
7. Spend less money. This one is a hard one. I work from home and have a lot of down time with the kids. The youngest one is only in preschool two days a week for 3 hours each, and the older boys are on a year-round schedule so they have 3-5 week breaks throughout the year. We typically spend that time going places and spending money. It's a lot easier to entertain them when we go somewhere. This has to change. See # 2 above. Unfortunately, this one means no Disney trip this year, which totally bums me out!
8. Focus on my blog and other social media. I started this blog is 2007 (I think), but it sat dormant for a long time, with only the occasional post here and there. I've reinvented the blog this year, and next year I want to really expand my presence in the blogging community. I've already started on this one a bit, joining
BlogHer and
The SITS Girls. I also created a Facebook page for
the Cul de Sac Mom.
9. Learn to cook a few good "go-to" meals for busy nights that are both filling and healthy! My husband does a large share of the cooking at our house, and he is pretty good at it. We run into problems when he gets home late, or we have 2 basketball practices/games to get to, or he just doesn't feel like cooking. Right now our go-to meals are eggs and toast or pancakes-- both of which the kids LOVE! I'd like to add a few more non-breakfast recipes to my arsenal for the nights we need something quick and easy.
10. Find Balance. I've been working on this for a while now. I saw the movie Eat, Pray, Love in the movie theater (by myself no less) and it really made me evaluate my life. It sparked my
52 Book Challenge and the blog that accompanies it, but more importantly it made me realize that I don't always put my focus in the right place. I worry too much about things that I cannot immediately change, and I get bogged down under the weight of the world. So next year, in 2011, I will strive to find the right balance between being a mom, wife, blogger, Realtor, and woman. Maybe it's because I'm a Libra that I feel the need for more balance. Who knows?! Regardless, I need to feel fulfilled as a whole person- not just a mother and wife. I need to figure out who I want to be, and how I'm going to get there, while maintaining my responsibilities and relationships at home.
So there you have it! A little insight into my world, and how I want to make it better!